“Not following directions” usually isn’t defiance
One of the more common and most misread patterns: a player is given clear direction, and it doesn’t get implemented. The instinct is to read that as a lack of want — an attitude problem. Far more often, it’s a lack of understanding or a mismatch between how the direction was delivered and how that specific player actually processes and learns information. Those are two completely different problems with two completely different fixes.
Breaking “coachable” into its parts
Coachability can be broken into distinct, scoreable components: how someone responds to correction in the moment, how reliably they follow through afterward, how they prioritize competing instructions, and how they manage the stress of being corrected in front of teammates. Two players who both get labeled “uncoachable” can be struggling with two entirely different components — which means they need two entirely different approaches from a coaching staff.
Tracking it through the season, not just at intake
The same lens applies over a season, not just at evaluation. Lightweight, recurring check-ins — what went well, what could be better, what was learned — create an ongoing signal on traits like grit, mindfulness, and curiosity. Watched over time, that signal can flag a dip before it ever shows up as a poor performance on the field or court, giving a staff time to intervene instead of react.